A MESSAGE FOR MY FELLOW NIGERIANS

We must learn to be strong despite the vicissitudes of life.
We must learn to pass through the trials and challenges of our everyday life.
We must accept the betrayals and heartbreaks of life not because we are determined to
revenge but because we want to move on.
We should be steadfast in prayers especially for our country and our leaders.
We should be happy.
Though the present state of our country is shaken, we must have faith.
We should have unshaken faith.
This might be the time for bad leadership but we must be patient for good shall supercede bad.
But, we must also have individual change of hearts for tiny drops make a mighty ocean..
Besides all these, we must have fun and be happy for we are BLESSED.

The memories of you are too much to be remembered in this lifetime alone. As u lay to rest in the bosom of the lord today, u will forever remain in the lives of all the people you have touched in different ways. You will be in my heart till i breath my last, am so glad you brought out time to see me before your passing and am sorry i was upset for different stupid reasons. I will miss you every second of my life.

ETERNAL REST BE GRANTED TO YOU AND PERPETUAL LIGHT SHINE UPON YOU.
REST IN PEACE.

With My Heavy Heart....

I have never known the pain that comes with death till now, its something so strong and extremely unbearable, in my heart of hearts I honestly do not know how am gonna leave with this kind of pain. I don't know how am going to smile everyday and never think of the pain I feel in my heart, I don't know how am going to be myself again. I don't know how am going to wake up and not see your face or hear your voice in my head. U didn't even stay in my life for a year but I know how much you mattered for the little time you stayed with me. You were just an unavoidable mistake and am glad I let that mistake happen because it has made me to understand the real meaning of appreciation. For the first time in my life, this is one pain that music cannot heal. You will remain in my heart forever but I beg that you give me the strength to be stronger than this. I miss you.

DEATH

All my life i have never known the pain death can bring, i have never known that the loss of a loved one is like a scar that will never go away. Yesterday i lost someone very dear to my heart and i know for sure that this pain is something very difficult to live with for the rest of my life. I lost someone so full of life, someone so warm and welcoming. Chuka how can you die???? You promised to come back after the wedding only for me to hear that you are no more. How can i continue to live with this unbearable pain? How can you not come back? I desperately need to hear your voice again, i need to know that you are ok wherever you are... I need to know how and why God decided to take you away from this earth, am sick and tired of everybody telling me that God knows best. What is there to know????? My heart is bleeding and breaking,am asking myself if i have the strength to live with this pain forever and i know its gonna be extremely hard.... Your memory will continue to live on in my heart.

ADIEU CHUKA OKEKE!!!!!

THE DAWN OF A NEW YEAR

Thank God for making it possible for each of us to make it alive to see 2011. This year is going to be the year of more good than bad,the year of more laughter than tears, the year of more smiles than frowns.... Its going to be the year of massive breakthrough,the year of great accomplishments, the year of justice,the year of experiencing true love, the year of nothing but the best. 2011 is going to be our year of unending testimonies. Have a lovely year and never forget to keep God very close to your hearts so you can experience his great and merciful love. Have a blast this 2011. PEACE!!!

It will be well with our country Nigeria very soon..... I have always suggested that all the present leaders need to be killed and buried since they are of no use to this country. They have decided to sit down with folded arms,finish our money and gamble with our lives but soon enough redemption is going to come for Nigeria... Redemption is goin to come and wipe the tears of the masses and we will have good roads,good health care, constant light, sound educational system for our children. Its not a crime if Nigeria is a well-functioning country,we deserve it because we are highly blessed. Honestly,am not expecting that leaders should not steal but if you want to steal,steal after you have worked and done something remarkable with your position... We deserve better than what we are getting. Its d 31st of December 2010 and two bomb blasts have already been registered,please what does this say about our country???? Its a sad story indeed,a very sad one at that.

We need to be mindful of the friends we keep, we need to make sure that such friends are also friends to others before we let them be friends to us because in the real sense,there is no guarantee that the person that is bad to other people will be good to you. A bad person remains a bad person, we need to be watchful. The company we keep really tells a lot about us so we need to be careful of the people we keep as friends. We should note that we would never completely know a human being so we should be careful of what we say to them, they might use it against us someday, they might turn the table around and call us BACKSTABBERS. Inasmuch as we might meet bad people in life,there are still the good people,the true friends that don't change as seasons change, people that will always have our backs at all time. We should not be blind and not notice the good ones when they come around because they are few and we should grab them as they come. We would never meet perfect people because everybody has their different imperfections so we should also learn to appreciate their failings aswell. We should note the difference between a bad person and a good person..... We should always be on alert. Have a wonderful 2011. God be with you.

WHO ARE YOU?

You have to live a life where you should forget about the pains, betrayals, heartbreaks, gossips and injuries of yesterday but live on all the good tidings of today. If you are living a life where you conjure all the pains of yesterday then your tomorrow is being limited based on your choice because you simply do not want to be totally happy. You should learn to forget yesterday's pains no matter how bad it might have hurt you and learn to live for today.
Who are you to conjure all the pains of the past??? If God can forgive and forget, you are nothing but the tiniest of grains compared to him. So stop being a fool and stop pretending to hate total happiness when you know you love it.
Just try to lighten your heart so you can be totally happy and you should rather conjure all the good tidings of your life and see what massive difference will be made.
Are you the person that eats up your happiness or the person that fetches unending happiness?

I NEED IT BACK AND I NEED IT NOW

Its been almost forever since i had the capability to use it....I need it like crazy, it once made me feel like mt whole life was complete despite all the problems that i encountered with each day that passed me by, it made me strong and it gave me a kind of courage that is so rare to come by, it was there, it was there indeed..
At a point, things began to change from good to bad til it got to the point that i knew nothing at all...I let it all slip away, i let ma abililty to use my capability slip away, it went far, so far away.. I did not not even notice its absense till i was recalled back from my fruitless sojourn and i had to look around and see what life really meant to me, then i realised that what i had was not what i was supposed to have, asmuch as it hurt, i let it all go away...
I got my ability back and am alive again....

NOTHING NEW BUT THANKS.

The new year began ages ago and i didn't think to say hello and deliver my long note of prayers, thanks and encouragements. Nevertheless you were all in my thoughts and i definitely had all the prayers and thanks in my head.. I might have left you for awhile but i have very much been around watching and hoping i get responses. Since there has been none, i decided to keep with other things and still hang around somewhere.. I got admission to school so everything has been busy and very stressful but its all good and am glad am alive.. Nobody needs me for now so i'll be gone alittle while again till i have the opportunity to be with my lovely and gracious readers, but if there are none, i will be here as always...... PEACE!!!!!!!

The Dance Of Life

A good dance partner must make many accomodations. Sometimes the music speeds up or slows down, and she must follow her escorts lead into a different dance step. Sometimes the dance floor gets crowded, and he must maneuver them out of a tight spot. Sometimes he will delight her with a dip or turn, or guide her towards the punchbowl for some refreshment. It's never the exact same dance twice in a row.
On the dance floor of life, there are times for us to settle down and get serious and there are times when we should lighten up and take a break. There are times for spontaneity and times for discipline and fidelity to routines. There are times to savour the moment and times to move on to something new..

SERIOUS QUESTIONS

oWhat do you really enjoy doing most?

When do you feel the most fully alive?

What are you doing when you lose track of time?

Do you like routine or variety?

Do you prefer serving with a team or by yourself?

Are you more introverted or extroverted?

Are you more a thinker or a feeler?

Which do you enjoy more - competing or cooperating?

These are questions that you should ask yourself because it will help you discover yourself more than you know..
PEACE!

STILL CHECKING

Life has been kind of good to me and with me because i have been happy and my lovely friends and family has been around me to keep making me happy.. I am not completely happy because i haven't heard from anybody but maybe it's just a matter of time sha. I am still smiling and sticking around waiting for who has anything to share with a shoulder as broad as mine. I used to send some of my articles to a lady that had a page on Punch Newspaper and i loved that because people would read my stuff and send me lovely mails of how i helped inspired some things they did, it made me satisfied.. I actually believe that i was born for the people, to help change how bad they feel and give them the hope they forget they possess. I wish i could still continue but she usually gets loads of articles and i hate to be an added burden.. I decided to continue from here and see what the future holds for me and my people that are troubled. So send your troubles and distresses to me and i promise to give you hope. I actually got to know about blogspot through one of my idols, Funmi Iyanda. My brothers couldn't have more of me always saying, "Abeg open Funmi's blog for me to read what's new". I still check on her besides having my blog since am not much of a dustbin person.. I am still somewhere waiting for you guys to check up on me... Till then, PEACE!!

NEW HOME

Hello people, i have always dreamt of having a media where i can be able to interact with different kinds of people and am pleased to be a part of this new home. I know everybody likes to see what celebrities have to say but am no celebrity and i hope you just see me the way i am. I love to write different kinds of stuff, it could be funny, silly, naughty but i assure you that they are always true.. I hope that you like what you read. I basically write about myself in inspiring ways so it can add a little something to anyone who reads it and seriously, you won't regret it. I love helping people that are in situations that they become confused and don't know what to do.. Anyways, i hope to hear from someone sooner than i will expect. For now, i just hope you were not too bored because i promise to give you much more as time flies, afterall everyone is different on their first day of anything................................CHEERS!