Confusing word called LOVE......

There are 3 major topics that troubles me; the will to love completely,the will to trust and the ability to accept people the way they are. All 3 of them are intertwined...
*How can you love someone without being able to trust them?
*How can you love and trust someone without being able to accept them just the way they are?
*Are people supposed to change in order to make their partners feel better and love them more or are their partners supposed to love them more despite their short-comings?
*Are people supposed to love their partners despite their short-comings even if they do not trust that they deserve it?
*Are people supposed to just love,trust and accept whatever bullshit they get from their partners because of fear of the unknown?
* Are people supposed to love,trust and accept these short-comings but still complain about it every other day without the intention of leaving?
* Are people supposed to remain in relationships out of love and no respect?
* Are people supposed to say "I love you" and not be able to say "I trust you"?
* Are people aware that you CANNOT trust someone that does not love you neither can you trust someone you do not love?
* Are people aware that someone who will not say they love you and yet abuse your trust????
Trust is love;they abuse your trust,they abuse your love. Nobody has ever been able to trust who they do not love,TRUST IS HEAVY. You cannot accept someone you do not trust so you must learn to love them enough in order to trust them.
One should never be afraid of the unknown,the unknown will probably give you love like never before.
The will to love completely is the ability to trust and accept notwithstanding the short-comings because only God can give us selfless and perfect love.
Nnamdi-Okagbue Chibuzo